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Aug 17, 2015
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Jun 10, 2015
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by: jane doe

It does get better. I was in the cycle of abuse for most of my life. I got out for the very last time a year and a half ago. I went to alot of dv support groups, but my PTSD was so bad most of everything just triggered me. I knew nothing about boundaries or healthy relationships. I took classes and rebuilt my life. See, most groups they focus on what's happened to us and how to safety plan, but they don't talk about is solutions and how to prevent domestic violence from happening in the first place. I recommend reading jan silvious "fool proofing you life." That book saved my life.

Jun 10, 2015
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Oct 29, 2010
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I'm with ya girl
by: Jane Doe

Ya I spent my whole life inside the trauma triangle, and I've been accused of liking the abuse, it being my fault for being abused, and even being called a drama queen.

It's wierd now. I find that the only people I really get close to is survivors themselves. The outside world just doesn't get it. And when I get my stupid triggers, it appears I'm crazy to people that don't understand it.

I'm getting better now. My triggers are less and less. I'm living my life drama free, minus dealing with my ex husband because we share a son together. But even that drama is getting less and less because I keep removing myself from the triangle and tell him "dude, this isn't about you or me or your girlfriend, this is about our son. And unless this conversation has something to do with our kid, then I simply do not want to hear it. I refuse to live in the past, and I refuse to deal with un needed drama, period."

He's starting to get it. I'm not the submissive woman he was with for 12.5 years, and he can't walk all over me anymore. I am me. And I am free. :)

Take care,

Jane Doe

Aug 11, 2010
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Courageous Woman!
by: Pat

You are incredible and you are right: you shouldn't be ashamed. Wish all women felt that way so they could get away sooner.

Hope your life goes steadily upward and onward!

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