Man can live alone without any fear of losing anything. Then why human beings living together? Why they prefer how to write essay to live together? The reason is that any person cannot fulfill his desires lonely.
Jul 23, 2010 Rating
reply by: LeeAnn
I don't have confidential housing. I now live far from my family, and check to check. I cannot apply for help because I am afraid he will find me. I also have to pay child support to my ex, as he took my kids from me. One day I know I ill be able to live without fear, and see my children and family again.
Jul 02, 2010 Rating
re by: Jane Doe
LeeAnn-
The first anonymous post was from me, I just forgot to sign in. I lived in the trauma triangle as mostly a victim for the last 32 years. I've been fleeing from my last abuser for the last 7 months. I would really like to compare notes on resources. I just got accepted into confidential transitional housing and will be moving to my new home in the next few days. Maybe if we compared notes and resources we could help each other.
Jul 01, 2010 Rating
Reply by: LeeAnn
I had to leave my kids and family behind. I haven't seen them in years, just few phone calls. Yes he was a good actor...I am healing, but it is slow, financially I am always broke...but 1 day I will prevail.
Thank You for your kind words...
Jul 01, 2010 Rating
The Abuser as an Apparently Great Actor by: Pat
How he ever kept his craziness from you for four years is beyond me. This is unusual and I'm sorry it happened to you. I don't know why the court was so easy on him. It doesn't add up, but then, what about DV is easy to understand, including what happens in the legal system?
You deserve more than constant fear. I hope you can change your identity and start a new life.
If your kids are with you, they will need the same--new birth certificates, social security cards, school and vaccination records, etc. Not easy, but far better than hiding for the rest of your days.
Good luck.
Pat
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Jul 01, 2010 Rating
wow :( by: Anonymous
Wow, I don't even know what to say. My abusive relationships were both gradual changes, and not as violent, I can't even imagine what you are going through. You said you had to leave your family behind, does that include your children?
I am so sorry you had to go through all of that. Were you able to get into confidential transitional housing? I had an awful time finding confidential housing, as there are few and far between, but this weekend I get to move into my new place. Let me know if you need any help. There are resources for your situation if you haven't found them already.
